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Volume 5, Issue 1      Spring 2002


NICE Times

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The Newsletter of Northern Ireland Children's Enterprise

Donal J. Murphy Center Dedicated in Ballycastle

     On May 23, the NICE residential center in Ballycastle, Northern Ireland was dedicated as the Donal J. Murphy Center to honor the group's founder. NICE grew from Don Murphy's vision. His personal experience hosting children for summer visits convinced him that the effects of such a program alone would not last after the children returned home to the segregated communities of Belfast. By arranging the financing on the first NICE house in Ballycastle, he provided the opportunity for thousands of children, and their families, to continue to meet in a safe environment. With the addition of a second building in the center of Belfast in 1998, over 15,000 meetings have been facilitated among children, parents, and leaders of the two communities since 1989.
     From the start his commitment has been unwavering. For the first ten years of the program, DJ Murphy Associates provided the office space and administrative support required to run the program. Golf outings, begun in 1989, became the main fundraising tool. We now have ten outings ranging from the west coast of California to the east coast of Ireland. Over the past fourteen years, NICE has grown from strictly a summer program to a seven-day per week enterprise.
     To celebrate the dedication, children, staff and volunteers assembled at the center. Children from Seymour Hill and Holy Child, the two schools that most of our children attend, came up on the NICE minibus. Some of the children told us of their adventures at the Ballycastle facility, and what involvement in NICE means to them. It was a heartwarming afternoon for all.
     Our Youth Programs Manager Joe Loughlin, who is quite talented on the guitar, treated us to some music. He was joined by Fiona Kerr, one of our youth volunteers, who has a lovely voice and sang some beautiful songs for us. A poem by Sian O'Neill, another youth volunteer, was read - the poem No More Notches is reprinted on page 3 of this newsletter.
     Our Chairman in Northern Ireland Paul McCrory guided us through the rest of the program. Carmel McCavana told us of all the Murphy family has done for NICE since the late 1970's, and included some humorous anecdotes over the many years
     It was a great day, and a fitting time to honor Don Murphy and his family for all they have done for the cause of peace in Northern Ireland.


Left to right: Don Murphy, his son Don Jr.
with wife Marina, his daughter Kerry and his wife Mary Jo

Thanks to Bill Cullen & Irish Youth Foundation

     We have so many people to thank for making our first golf tournament in Ireland such a success. Sponsored by the Irish Youth Foundation, it was held May 20 on the Old Course at Portmarnock Golf Club. Initial reports indicate that it raised a net profit of over 40,000 euros (about $41,600) for NICE. Trevor O'Rourke and the Irish International Group were instrumental in bringing the whole event together. Thanks also to Canice Kelly, the member of Portmarnock who arranged the event at a club that rarely hosts charity outings.
     One of the highlights of the day was the presentation of a check for 12,700 euros by best selling author Bill Cullen from the proceeds of his book It's a Long Way From Penny Apples. The book has been number one on the Bestseller List in Dublin, and is soon to be released in the USA. All proceeds from the sale of the book are directed to the Irish Youth Foundation, with a portion given to NICE.
     While the weather for the day was not the best, everyone was in good humor knowing we were having a truly Irish experience. Portmarnock is an absolutely beautiful facility overlooking the Irish sea, and one of the premier courses in Ireland. The old course is the one everyone wants to play, and it proved to be quite a challenge for the group.
     After dinner, the golfers were shown the new NICE video, which gives a terrific explanation of the organization in the words of the staff and volunteers who run it. It also tells the history of the program, and some of the effects it is having on the people involved. The golfers were able to see the children utilizing the facilities in Ballycastle and of Belfast. The eight-minute movie really gave them a comprehensive view of how the NICE program affects families in Northern Ireland.


Bill Cullen presents Don Murphy with a check for 12,700 euros

  


Helping out at the Portmarnock registration table were Carmel McCavana of NICE,
Eaodain McHugh of the Irish Youth Foundation and Clodagh Gibson of Irish International,
and Ciara Boylan of the Irish Youth Foundation

First Annual NICE Grand Golf Tour of Ireland

     The first annual NICE Golf Tour of Ireland took place in May. The trip was the brainchild of Don Parson, member of the NICE Board of Directors. Five days of golf, accommodations, and transportation were all coordinated by Owenoak International of Norwalk, CT.

     First stop on the tour was Ireland's premier course at Portmarnock Golf Club for the inaugural NICE golf tournament in Ireland. The fine Irish weather was unable to dampen the spirits of our stalwart group. Over the next week, they continued on to play at Portstewart Golf Club, Royal County Down, and both the Dunluce Course and the Valley Course at Royal Portrush. They ended the week with a visit to the NICE residential center in Ballycastle for the dedication of the Donal J. Murphy Center.
     Plans are already underway for next year's trip. If you'd like to join us, just give a call to (914) 271-1040.

New Mini-Van A Big Hit

    Thanks to Rick Becker and the NICE golfers of Silicon Valley for their gift of a new van for our program in Belfast and Ballycastle. At our first golf tournament at LaRinconada Golf Club in Los Gatos, CA last year, NICE Director Carmel McCavana told the golfers of the difficulties caused by an 11-year old van with no power steering and a few mechanical problems. At the time, the parents and volunteers would fight over who would have to drive the van - quite a difference from this year, when the discussion is who gets to drive the van!

    A side benefit has been healthier children with fewer instances of carsickness, plus lots less groans and muscle strains from the drivers. The ride is so much smoother that the hour-long trip from Belfast to Ballycastle seems to fly by.
    We're hoping that all our friends from Los Gatos (and our supporters from across the world) who might be visiting in Ireland will stop in for a visit to see the great work you are funding in Northern Ireland.

Children to Arrive July 1

    The day the children arrive is always one of the happiest on the NICE calendar. We meet the plane at Kennedy International Airport, and bring the children by bus to Kennedy High School in Somers where their host families for the summer will be waiting to greet them.
    So many people have asked us lately why we continue to bring the children to America for the summer when the peace agreement was signed over four years ago. There has been continued violence throughout this year, with riots, shootings, and even sectarian murder coming back on the scene. It is still important to give these children a rest from the cycle of violence, and let them see communities where people of every size, shape, color and religion can live side by side.
    Each host family is given a packet of information telling them all about their summer visitor. Inside are reports from the child's teacher and doctor, and, of course, a statement from the parents. We ask the parents to tell of any behavior problems the child may have, or any particular fears we should be aware of. Here is an excerpt from one mother's statement:

Our daughter has no behaviour problems. Her brother lives on his own in England as he did not want to live in Northern Ireland because of the troubles. We see him maybe twice a year. Our house is in North Belfast. When any trouble starts ours is the first house that always comes under attack with bricks and bottles. We have had our windows smashed. During this last year it has been bad. I am so grateful that my daughter has been chosen for this holiday so that at this time of year she will be away from all the trouble. Thank you.

A Poem From Northern Ireland


by Sian O'Neill

    Our staff in Belfast has been telling us of the terrific strides made with our youth volunteer group this year. They have been a great help setting up workshops and organizing the weekend residential programs for the children. They have also brought plenty of enthusiasm with them.
    After a recent weekend in Ballycastle, one of the 17-year old girls came home and wrote this poem. The author is Sian O'Neill, who lives just outside Belfast. She tells us she has many more poems and we hope to print more of them in the future.

NO MORE NOTCHES

We mourned for their families,
We grieved for their friends,
We even shed tears for their souls.
But that was all.
Our lives went on.
Theirs came to an end,
An abrupt silence,
As soon as the gun blasted 'bang'.
Time did not stand still.
For us it was just another notch,
Another tick on a killers agenda.
No. It was not our son, nor was it our brother.
It was a notch, to be regained over and over,
By the 'other side'!

It will never stop.
Unless we make it.
Do you want peace?
They did.
But they were just another name on another headstone.
We CAN make a difference.
By making sure innocent people do not become statistics of this hatred.
We have to push towards peace - not away from it.
Northern Ireland should not be a reminder,
Of how many people are dead.
Killed in frenzied hate and ice cold blood.
Please make it stop.
What did they die for? Honour? NO.
They died in hate.
Just more notches on a killers slate.
Please, no more notches.

  


Don and Mary Jo Murphy with some of the children and volunteers from the NICE program
outside the recently dedicated Donal J. Murphy Centre in Ballycastle, Northern Ireland.

  

Schedule of Upcoming NICE Events

Monday, July 1 The children arrive from Belfast
Saturday, July 13 Annual Picnic at Putnam County Park in Carmel, NY for children and host families
Monday, July 15 Tenth Annual NICE Boston Golf Outing at Wollaston Country Club in Milton, MA
Monday, July 29 The Eleventh Annual NICE Golf Outing at Mahopac Golf Club, NY
Monday, August 5 The children return to Belfast
Monday, Sept. 23 Fourth Annual NICE Philadelphia Outing at Waynesborough Country Club in Paoli, PA
Monday, October 7 Third Annual NICE San Francisco Golf Tournament at the Presidio Golf Course
October TBD First Annual NICE Golf Outing at Olde Oaks Golf Club in Bossier City, LA

For further information, or to register for any of these events
just call NICE at (914) 271-1040

  

NICE TIMES is a publication of
Northern Ireland Children's Enterprise
P.O. Box 802
Croton-on-Hudson, NY 10520
(914) 271-1040
(914) 271-5417 fax
www.nicekids.org
Please call us with any comments, suggestions or questions.
Kate Cunningham
Executive Director USA
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